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General Category => General Discussion => Topic started by: Ntrain2k on August 10, 2009, 12:37:18 AM

Title: It sucks, even when you expect it to happen.
Post by: Ntrain2k on August 10, 2009, 12:37:18 AM
My uncle was found dead at 7:30 last night.

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Post by: onlyflash944 on August 10, 2009, 12:37:53 AM
were you close?
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Post by: highroller54 on August 10, 2009, 12:40:40 AM
age? cause of death?  Sorry for your loss little guy.
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Post by: Ntrain2k on August 10, 2009, 12:40:45 AM
Closeish.

He was a hard headed man who was ruined by Vietnam.

The hard headedness runs in the family. We have fought like cats and dogs, but we were family.

He would have been there for me if I needed him, and me for him as well.

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Post by: onlyflash944 on August 10, 2009, 12:41:50 AM
sorry for your loss
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Post by: Ntrain2k on August 10, 2009, 12:43:39 AM
age? cause of death?  Sorry for your loss little guy.

60's. Myriad health issues from agent orange and drug/alcohol use over the years.

Nothing that was directly killing him that we knew of, at least not this quickly.

My dad found him laying partway on his bed when he went to check on him this evening.
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Post by: JACER63 on August 10, 2009, 01:02:59 AM
sorry for loss man.
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Post by: LS1pwNzJ00 on August 10, 2009, 01:14:26 AM
that sucks, 60 is old age IMO.  So he lived a long life.
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Post by: Sinister on August 10, 2009, 01:17:48 AM
Sucks, sorry for your loss.
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Post by: 5thgenlx on August 10, 2009, 01:47:01 AM
my condolences
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Post by: Urban Indian on August 10, 2009, 02:25:03 AM
Sorry for your loss friend
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Post by: Joseph Davis on August 10, 2009, 07:36:40 AM
 :(
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Post by: marcj on August 10, 2009, 09:11:42 AM
what was the official cause of death? is uncommon to up and shit the bed like that so young.
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Post by: Joseph Davis on August 10, 2009, 09:25:55 AM
Not when your nerves are shot from combat, and body compromised by chemicals.  Most of those old vets are tough as nails and hang on for a good while because they are fighters and don't give up, but they still die younger than others especially when they don't learn to manage their stress.  If Ntrain2k's uncle was still on again/off again hitting the sauce then he never learned.

A lot of those crafty old vets are their own worst enemy.  They can be really challenging to be friends with - fiercely loyal and will do anything for you, but you get sucked into the self-created drama of their lives.
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Post by: Ntrain2k on August 10, 2009, 11:12:57 AM
Don't have an official COD yet.

Thanks for the condolences all.
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Post by: patsmx5 on August 10, 2009, 11:28:44 AM
Sorry to hear man.
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Post by: Hotrodlincoln on August 10, 2009, 12:04:21 PM
Sorry dude