Ok, today i actually had an extra hand to help, so here is goes...
i swapped dizzy, no change. the car was just the opposite of before though, with cyl 3&4 hot on mani vs 1&2, but i also swapped injectors the other day from left to right, so now I'm thinking injectors. i kept the car running and a friend pulled plug wires, the cold cyls made no difference with wire removed, but car would stutter and almost die with hot cyls wires removed. made sense to me. so I'm thinking, swap injectors, so i get 450s i had laying around, put those in, and car still runs the same, although a lot richer, obviously....
so that ruled out i had him pull MAP sensor off, car damn near dies, but for a split second sounds like its on all 4, and also does the same when you first plug it in.. so that confuses me. next up i have the OBD2 F20B ecu with conversion harness laying around, so thought id try that, cause it can't really hurt at this point. so i put the PCM in and still runs like dick. unplug MAP and BAM, motherfucker is running on all 4 cyls, its def rich cause its boggy, but at least is running best it has so far....
So.... MAP sensor???
also, it just hit me, if i let the car idle, well it stalls, but keep it in lower RPM it seemed to be fairly smooth and run semi normal, and all 4 pipes would get kinda warm, but if i kept trying to keep it above like 1500-2000, only 2 runners would be warm.
it almost sounds like 2 step sometimes, like maybe the TPS was shit, which kinda leads me to that because OBD2 computer doesn't have 2-step, but it ran better with no MAP, never touched TPS, and no, i don't have MAP and TPS mixed up.