Also Kant stated the only thing good in it's self is a good will. Kant's system of ethics is a normative system of ethics that focuses on the will of a person and his categorical imperative creates some interesting cases where it seems to be a contradiction to apply kantian ethics.
Yea, don't worry I caught that completely unrelated tidbit. You sound like JD just spewing random facts for the hell of it.
Good will is doing the right thing for the right thing's sake. In this case, doing the right thing is being a decent person and following society's etiquette so as to not disrespect your fellow persons.
You know as well as I do that what I'm saying for this particular case is correct. I just felt like bringing things back to reality because your abstract questioning of the rightness of our society's etiquette rules was grossly off the point and best saved for class and that special time when you play with yourself at night.