Print

Please login or register.
1 Hour 1 Day 1 Week 1 Month Forever
Login with username, password and session length

[raiden571]

well, my girl of 5 years is leaving me. i smoke pot and she hates it. its the occasional release kinda thing, and she says she cant take it anymore. we have a kid together which makes it shittier. she knew i have smoked for years and she finally freaked out yesterday.       i kinda saw it coming, just hope she doesnt pull shit when it comes to our son.   ugh     whats weird is im not sure if i am upset that she is leaving me or if its because i feel like i let down my kid.   i work hard/go to school and provide for both of them very well. i pay the rent, and most all of our bills and even slave around the house. i guess i am at my limit too.        anyone else have a predicament like mine? howd you handle it?

i expect the typical bashing, atleast include porn if thats what your gonna do. :yes:

[Lowerit]

She found someone else dood.. read the signs.

[raiden571]

thats what i always felt, i just thought i was paranoid. if that is true she was able to cry and lie to my face that i am thew only person she loves.

this whole fucking thing makes me wish i was completely alone and never had any responsibility. maybe i should become a crazy gypsy with an engineering degree living in a trailer traveling around North America

[j.h.christ]

read the signs.

or put down the pipe

[raiden571]

read the signs.

or put down the pipe

told her i would and she didnt want to hear it. 

what is the waiting period before i can get another bitch to fuck. after this i dont want a gf for a long time

[AstroVannin]

i should become a crazy gypsy with an engineering degree living in a trailer traveling around North America

That ship sailed

we have a kid together

[97Econobox]

Stop smoking now.  be clean don't have shit in your house don't give her anything to go on.  if shes mad enough to leave you for it she will certainly tell cops or bullshit to get more money or keep you from the kid.

Bitches be crazy.  sorry she lost it, probably for the best.  Ive always thought its not pot that people freak out about, its the stigma.  they don't want to be associated with a "drug user" even thought they didn't have much of an issue with it previously.

Now as our friend Jesus just said though if you are rocking it everyday and shes tired of it that may be one thing.  but if just your occasional smoke creates a freak out then well.......

why would i want to be with someone who says "You cant do this or I'll leave you"  if she says that then the actual subject doesn't matter, it means shes prepared to do it anyway so you are just playing a game.  next month it could be an entirely different subject on which shes ready to leave you over.

I still chief and the wife doesn't but i handle business and its not an issue.  not in the house or car and not while my kids awake or when its just me watching him.  I also don't need to do it everyday or 5 times a day, its very situational.  Currently taking a break due to monetary reasons, sure i might could find 10 bucks for it here and there as we aren't poor but its a principal thing.

[raiden571]

Stop smoking now.  be clean don't have shit in your house don't give her anything to go on.  if shes mad enough to leave you for it she will certainly tell cops or bullshit to get more money or keep you from the kid.

Bitches be crazy.  sorry she lost it, probably for the best.  Ive always thought its not pot that people freak out about, its the stigma.  they don't want to be associated with a "drug user" even thought they didn't have much of an issue with it previously.

Now as our friend Jesus just said though if you are rocking it everyday and shes tired of it that may be one thing.  but if just your occasional smoke creates a freak out then well.......

why would i want to be with someone who says "You cant do this or I'll leave you"  if she says that then the actual subject doesn't matter, it means shes prepared to do it anyway so you are just playing a game.  next month it could be an entirely different subject on which shes ready to leave you over.

I still chief and the wife doesn't but i handle business and its not an issue.  not in the house or car and not while my kids awake or when its just me watching him.  I also don't need to do it everyday or 5 times a day, its very situational.  Currently taking a break due to monetary reasons, sure i might could find 10 bucks for it here and there as we aren't poor but its a principal thing.

dude, you and me are the same. thats how i roll. im not smoking when hes around, or in the house, etc.  i usually do it with a friend or ill go for a lil drive. its not addiction, its wanting to calm down. i dont care to drink, gives me crazy dreams and i act odd, cigarettes are a rare occasion.     shit i work 30 hours a week. i wake up at 7:30, go to work until i have to be at school. ill be at school until 10 sometimes. when i get home, i just want to relax sometimes.

[Zeniceguycrx]

stay with her
do everything u can to keep her happy

go to a praty with her and get her drunk/stupid/topless

put a few lines of coke on the back of the toilet and take pictures

you will win in court if sahes all fucked and on lots of drugs topless at a party

[WPPF]

If she's hounding you about small things she's looking for  justification so she can build a case to leave you because she doesn't have the courage to state her personal desires,express them in an honest manner and take the responsibility for doing so.

[97Econobox]

If she's hounding you about small things she's looking for  justification so she can build to leave you because she doesn't have the courage to state her personal desires,express them in an honest manner and take the responsibility for doing so.

This.  i was sorta driving at it but yes.

[marcj]

If she's hounding you about small things she's looking for  justification so she can build to leave you because she doesn't have the courage to state her personal desires,express them in an honest manner and take the responsibility for doing so.

this sounds accurate.. my woman puts up with all my shit, albeit she flips out on occasion, especially when I get drunk and become an asshole at random, which in turn causes her to punch me in the face. I'm a full-time student, make lousy money advertising/programming freelance style, i'm a stay at home dad w/ a 9 month old. Her and I are still great with each other. It sounds like your girl is wanting to split up for other reasons benefiting her own interest.

[Urban Indian]

read the signs.

or put down the pipe

If your willing to let someone you love leave you over being able to smoke some dope.

You sir; have problems.

[Lowerit]

Who said stay with her?

Why??

there are enough women in the world, you shouldn't have to settle.  Unless she is a supermodel  deaf mute with a welding certificate and an over active sex drive  I say move on.

[Zeniceguycrx]

I did

but just until u get enuff dirt to keep custody of the kid

[Joseph Davis]

read the signs.

or put down the pipe

If your willing to let someone you love leave you over being able to smoke some dope.

You sir; have problems.

I've dated pot smokers.  I didn't give a shit as long as she did it outside.  No one cares if you aren't a fuck up.  It's been five fucking years, dude, and during this time she's spread her legs for him and pushed out his kid.  She's used to it.  Him smoking pot is not the problem here.

[marcj]

Him smoking pot is not the problem here.

precisely

[ryan89crx]

Him smoking pot is not the problem here.

Exactly, it's just the excuse she is using to justify her leaving

[Robb]

Truth.  The pot smoking isnt the straw that breaks the camel's back, its just her morally fucked up excuse to leave your ass.  Either that or she feels like she has no control over you and wants your to come groveling back to her, on her terms.

[jagojon3]

YouTube
         - Broadcast Yourself.

[chris]

She is not leaving you over being messy or smoking pot. If you were bumming it and acting like a typical pothead then the answer she gave you may have some truth behind it.



She has new dick she is fucking and is using pot as an excuse. In about 2 months she will randomly move in a with a new guy is her friend but of course is the new punk ass bitch who likes to save single mom's. yes there are tons of these busters out there. he will claim to be your child's parent. Talk shit to your kid about how your a loser the works


Welcome to hell sir.

[HiProfile]

well, my girl of 5 years is leaving me. i smoke pot and she hates it. its the occasional release kinda thing, and she says she cant take it anymore. we have a kid together which makes it shittier. she knew i have smoked for years and she finally freaked out yesterday.       i kinda saw it coming, just hope she doesnt pull shit when it comes to our son.   ugh     whats weird is im not sure if i am upset that she is leaving me or if its because i feel like i let down my kid.   i work hard/go to school and provide for both of them very well. i pay the rent, and most all of our bills and even slave around the house. i guess i am at my limit too.        anyone else have a predicament like mine? howd you handle it?

i expect the typical bashing, atleast include porn if thats what your gonna do. :yes:

Start beating her in front of your son. Pot will be the last thing on her mind.


What you need sir, is an ATOMIZER.

[Lowerit]

He's probably Black with a monster wang .. Check her vag for tightness , same with her cornhole. Failing that see if you still have your car stereo.. no car stereo = she's fuckin a black guy.

[raiden571]

she wants me to stop smoking pot but then at the same time she said shew was through fighting and doesnt want to deal with it anymore.
so i figure maybe i should just stop smoking and let her go.   
this has been building up for a while. if i was a fuck up then i could understand, but i work harder and do more than she does. hell, she couldnt even stay in school to be a kindergarten for more than a semester before giving up.

thats another thing in it self. i have other assets other than my income, i am set up after school to have no bills and be an engineer. i could pull the ass move. let her leave, clean up 100%, get a job out of state and take custody of our son. i know i already make more than her, have better credit and an education. if i do it before he is old enough to start making solid friendships it could work.     but i dont think im the kind of guy to do that.

i have already taken the steps. i gave my boof to my friend and sold off my bowls for dirt cheap last night. maybe ill just ignore her and see how things pan out. im kinda lost here. last night when she got off work she went to bed at 8:30 and didnt say a word to me.

[Joseph Davis]

She might not be fucking other people.  There is a remote chance she is just defective.

[Robb]

There is a remote chance she is just defective.

I thought that was most of em anyway?

[Joseph Davis]

One man's defective is another man's dream wife.  It's all about what you can put up with, I guess.

[raiden571]

she may have a guy she is interested in, but as far as sex goes i doubt it. i guess you would have to know her. shes more of the crazy mom who her baby and how she raises it comes first, even if it means doing it by herself. i have wondered if she intentionally had gotten pregnant to keep me around and have me be her little bitch who does what she wants. when nothing changed, other than me becoming a father, and a damn good one, she started saying she is unhappy, etc. etc.   she is very pig headed and never admits she is wrong....even when she proves to herself she was wrong.

i am at the point that i am sorta relieved. we fought 4 out of 5 nights a week. we have been together since i was a junior in high school which was 2004. im at wits end. im about to put my bike in my bros truck and drive out west to start a new life.    im still only 22, i hopefully have another 50-60 yrs to live. i cant dwell over what makes me upset.     


she has been texting me all morning. just saying we cant make it work, etc, etc. and that she is done trying.   im keeping my dignity and just letting her go. no more pot for me.    fuck bitches, make money and bros before hoes.  sometimes you got to jump off the carousel even if it is spinning at mach speed. im gonna find some strange tonight and hit that shit raw. :yes:

[Joseph Davis]

she has been texting me all morning. just saying we cant make it work, etc, etc. and that she is done trying.   im keeping my dignity and just letting her go. no more pot for me.   

You make me confused.  No more pot?  I mean, I don't care for the stuff, but it seems strange that you should quit for her yet decide to leave entirely.  What's the deal with that?

[arsenio]

Get a diary and stop looking for pitty.