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Re: dammit, women suck
« Reply #30 on: December 18, 2009, 12:24:03 PM »

she may have been the reason i smoke. i used to be against the stuff entirely until she set me off a few years ago and i tried it, i went from the weekend warrior. to smoking to release stress.
those that smoke know that after so long, the intensity of the high is pretty low and the only things you shouldnt do while high is anything very precise or involves multiple tedious steps, lol.

whats weird is a dont feel bad. thats why im not groveling at her feet.
i had what i wanted to do with my life set from the time i got out of high school and some how she strayed me from that path to living a life that i dont care for. i guess i am looking at it as more of a second chance of living the life i prepared to live. i have my education, no debt and stuff set aside.   i can realistically retire when im in my 40's if i plan it right and who knows, maybe live the life of a dirty old bastard with money, buying pussy and having a blast with life.

i guess i have already accepted her leaving me, just never knew when it would happen. maybe i am the pussy for never manning up and saying what i wanted out of the relationship, but the past is the past. she is who she is and i am who i am.
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Re: dammit, women suck
« Reply #31 on: December 18, 2009, 12:25:45 PM »

Get a diary and stop looking for pitty.
who ever said anything about pity?  i never asked for a handout, just what people think of the situation.
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Re: dammit, women suck
« Reply #32 on: December 18, 2009, 12:39:53 PM »

Get a diary and stop looking for pitty.
who ever said anything about pity?  i never asked for a handout, just what people think of the situation.

well my view on the situation is that you are looking for pitty.
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Re: dammit, women suck
« Reply #33 on: December 18, 2009, 01:48:09 PM »

your girl is illrational like most women but you guys have been together since 2004 sometimes people just grow apart
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Re: dammit, women suck
« Reply #34 on: December 18, 2009, 03:06:01 PM »

She doesn't give a shit about the weed, she's trying to use it as leverage to gain dominance in your relationship.
I doubt she has another man, she just wants to put you in your place.

You should try and make it work, for the kid. Grow a pair, tell her that you're a grown ass man, a good father, and for her to make your child grow up without a father, over something so trivial, makes her a horrible mother. She needs to come down off her high horse and put the needs of her kid before her selfish power play bullshit. You need to stay there for your kid's sake, but it sucks you have a woman who obviously needs a reality check.
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Re: dammit, women suck
« Reply #35 on: December 18, 2009, 03:20:40 PM »

My girl did the same shit to me. They are just looking for some justification for leaving because they are already emotionally unattached and feel trapped. She just needed an excuse to leave and be guilt free about it. She rationalizes some bullshit reason (and you haven't given her many to choose from). Fact is, she distanced herself (probably a few months prior) then jumps on any reason to make the whole mess ALL your fault. It doesn't matter what you do, she doesn't want you back. The weed was never the issue.
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Re: dammit, women suck
« Reply #36 on: December 18, 2009, 03:34:06 PM »

My girl did the same shit to me. They are just looking for some justification for leaving because they are already emotionally unattached and feel trapped. She just needed an excuse to leave and be guilt free about it. She rationalizes some bullshit reason (and you haven't given her many to choose from). Fact is, she distanced herself (probably a few months prior) then jumps on any reason to make the whole mess ALL your fault. It doesn't matter what you do, she doesn't want you back. The weed was never the issue.

No, your relationship failure was all your fault.  You're a nice guy, and women don't respect that.  I have $10 that says within 6 months your ex is with some guy that eats pain pills like candy, is in and out of legal trouble, quite probably beats her, and SHE LOVES HIM.


Both raiden and fysh, get laid in the short term and don't worry about it. 

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Re: dammit, women suck
« Reply #37 on: December 18, 2009, 03:39:06 PM »

Jd is correct. Women are ATTRACTED to jerks, but love to hate an asshole. It makes them feel better about themselves, like whatever they do isn't as bad as you are. Fuck it, move on, and find that 10% of the female population who are rational thinkers and want someone who is dedicated to anything they put their mind to.
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Re: dammit, women suck
« Reply #38 on: December 18, 2009, 03:40:51 PM »

Or give up.

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Re: dammit, women suck
« Reply #39 on: December 18, 2009, 03:45:13 PM »

My girl did the same shit to me. They are just looking for some justification for leaving because they are already emotionally unattached and feel trapped. She just needed an excuse to leave and be guilt free about it. She rationalizes some bullshit reason (and you haven't given her many to choose from). Fact is, she distanced herself (probably a few months prior) then jumps on any reason to make the whole mess ALL your fault. It doesn't matter what you do, she doesn't want you back. The weed was never the issue.

No, your relationship failure was all your fault.  You're a nice guy, and women don't respect that.  I have $10 that says within 6 months your ex is with some guy that eats pain pills like candy, is in and out of legal trouble, quite probably beats her, and SHE LOVES HIM.


Both raiden and fysh, get laid in the short term and don't worry about it. 

Sounds like pretty much EVERY boyfriend she had before me, including her ex-fiance. What I don't get is she says she will never respect me until I quit drinking heavily. I didn't start drinking excessively until she left, prior I was usually the DD. I saw her last night, yes I was drunk... but she was fucking stoned traveling high speed through la la land. Like, super-blitzed. So, drinking is wrong but smoking weed is totally legit? what the fuck ever.

And JD, I'm working on getting laid. My game is a bit rusty, but I'm currently working on 2 girls right now. 1 more coming into the mix soon.

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Re: dammit, women suck
« Reply #40 on: December 18, 2009, 03:54:49 PM »

atta BOY
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Re: dammit, women suck
« Reply #41 on: December 18, 2009, 04:01:52 PM »

My girl did the same shit to me. They are just looking for some justification for leaving because they are already emotionally unattached and feel trapped. She just needed an excuse to leave and be guilt free about it. She rationalizes some bullshit reason (and you haven't given her many to choose from). Fact is, she distanced herself (probably a few months prior) then jumps on any reason to make the whole mess ALL your fault. It doesn't matter what you do, she doesn't want you back. The weed was never the issue.

No, your relationship failure was all your fault.  You're a nice guy, and women don't respect that.  I have $10 that says within 6 months your ex is with some guy that eats pain pills like candy, is in and out of legal trouble, quite probably beats her, and SHE LOVES HIM.


Both raiden and fysh, get laid in the short term and don't worry about it. 

Sounds like pretty much EVERY boyfriend she had before me, including her ex-fiance. What I don't get is she says she will never respect me until I quit drinking heavily. I didn't start drinking excessively until she left,

Canned response from her.  She's not even giving conversation with you any conscious thought.  Forget her.


And JD, I'm working on getting laid. My game is a bit rusty, but I'm currently working on 2 girls right now. 1 more coming into the mix soon.

Accept the fact that you are a nice guy, and it's written all over you.  Nothing you can do will change this.  This is somewhat advantageous as you make women feel safe, which means you only have to push the buttons she normally looks for in the long term disaster three ring circus BUT I LOVE HIM sort of relationship that women seek out.  

Even though it comes out as false, you have to say shit that objectifies her to get her interested, so it's it's best to do it as a joke.  I liked meeting a girl casually once or twice, then walk up to her (ideally at a party after an hour or two of social lubricants) and tell her, "I am sooo in love with you.  (pause) What was your name again?"  You can tell within ten seconds if she'll sleep with you.

Always, at some point, she will realise she's saddled with a nice guy and want to leave.  Whether it's after two days or after a long term like your current ex, she will leave as comfort and trust and security are nothing compared to drama and abuse and having someone to take care of.  Have your game face on as you can see it coming, and be relieved as she'll feel bad about doing it but frankly you don't have to be saddled with the bitch.  Just continue to be nice and supportive all the way through and she'll leave quietly.  Alternately, you can go ahead and break it off with here in a calm but critical manner, which guarantees you some break up sex for that night and maybe puts you on the casual sex roster for the next 1-2 weeks before she finds a real asshole to disrespect her.

Don't get too caught up in treating women like that as you'll miss the small handful of sane ones.  And be careful, relationships with women who are nicer than you are will lack passion and make you unhappy.

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Re: dammit, women suck
« Reply #42 on: December 18, 2009, 04:16:25 PM »

Look for sexy librarians.  That does it for me.  :P
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Re: dammit, women suck
« Reply #43 on: December 18, 2009, 04:23:11 PM »

Stop being nice. Don't care (much) for what she thinks and don't listen particularly well. Make it clear the kid likely means a lot more to you then her. Best advice I can give you.

Been married for 10 years. Don't have any problems with my wife. Everyone I know who is divorced their wife didn't respect them and they didn't do shit about it. 2 kids going on 3.
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Re: dammit, women suck
« Reply #44 on: December 18, 2009, 04:38:58 PM »

Him smoking pot is not the problem here.


The lack of nude pics is  :(
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Re: dammit, women suck
« Reply #45 on: December 18, 2009, 04:50:42 PM »

i do have a vid.....
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Re: dammit, women suck
« Reply #46 on: December 18, 2009, 05:09:24 PM »

Like JD said, you're a nice guy. That shit gets you walked on in relationships. Women see kindness as weakness and when they get bored of taking advantage of you and making demands of you they will bounce. Why do you think a great % of our grandparents married once and stayd together?...because our grandfathers were fucking MEN, they didn't put up with a womans bullshit, and they kept them in there place.
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Re: dammit, women suck
« Reply #47 on: December 18, 2009, 05:17:43 PM »

I'm currently working on 2 girls right now. 1 cup coming into the mix soon.

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Re: dammit, women suck
« Reply #48 on: December 18, 2009, 06:18:34 PM »

In any case, if you did want to follow her, $40 prepaid gps phone inside her car.

Otherwise let her leave with parting advice. Save every penny she can, because the one with the better lawyer gets the kid. I also agree with klyph. i don't like berating women, but in this case it must be used against her. When women's irrationalities become so strong they risk ruining everything, they have to be driven into the ground with good old verbal abuse - if youre against physical assault. Treat them like dirt, they'll stick to you like dirt. For some people that's hard to do (me), but necessary if you want certain relationships.

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Re: dammit, women suck
« Reply #49 on: December 18, 2009, 09:15:42 PM »

Hmmmm


this thread perplexes me.


I also think that the problem here is that this relationSHIT is over. You know it
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Re: dammit, women suck
« Reply #50 on: December 18, 2009, 09:37:21 PM »

wtf


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Re: dammit, women suck
« Reply #51 on: December 19, 2009, 12:18:49 AM »

Who said stay with her?

Why??

there are enough women in the world, you shouldn't have to settle.  Unless she is a supermodel  deaf mute with a welding certificate and an over active sex drive  I say move on.



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Re: dammit, women suck
« Reply #52 on: December 19, 2009, 12:25:28 AM »

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Re: dammit, women suck
« Reply #53 on: December 19, 2009, 12:47:10 AM »

I wonder what all these dumbasses in America will do when pot becomes legal. Dumping someone over weed is stupid. I would dump someone over cigs or alcohol before weed.

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Re: dammit, women suck
« Reply #54 on: December 19, 2009, 01:31:55 AM »

This 2nd page is filled with solid advice. I have nothing to add.


i do have a vid.....


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« Reply #55 on: December 19, 2009, 01:49:44 AM »

He's going to go to court and she'll spew about all his drug use. He will be like, but judge I don't do it in front of the kid. Then the judge will be like, sir that's besides the point. Full custody to the mom and you are ordered to pay $1000 child support. As he walks out she's going to be like jokes on you, kid ain't even yours. You take the bitch back to court and judge reveals the daddy is Taco Petes down the street, but since you have been acting as the parent and providing support for the child you must continue to do so.

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Re: dammit, women suck
« Reply #56 on: December 19, 2009, 02:08:43 AM »

Bang hoes,build race cars and get a dog for when you need company or someone who cares. ;)
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Re: dammit, women suck
« Reply #57 on: December 19, 2009, 02:44:33 PM »

All I can say to you is don't walk out on your kid.  Heading out west and starting a new life just makes you a nigger if you abandon your child. 

There's a difference between being a dick to a woman, and standing up for yourself and being firm with one.  You don't have to be an asshole to be a man.  If she doesn't like you smokin dank, then quit!  However I DON'T think thats the reason she wants to leave.

99.9% of the time when I have seen women act like this, there is someone else.  The thought of that slut running off with someone else, with your kid is disturbing, but you have to realize it may happen. 

Try to catch her slippin, the last thing you want to do is pay massive amounts of money in c/s and never get to see your kid.  Get a fucking lawyer, keep your nose clean, and try to take full custody of your kid.   
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Re: dammit, women suck
« Reply #58 on: December 19, 2009, 06:07:25 PM »

id steal the kid, cut her up and put her in the trunk....nah


my only concern is the kid, i could give a fuck about her at this point. i realized im probably better off without her thinking of how the past couple years have been and how miserable iv felt.
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Re: dammit, women suck
« Reply #59 on: December 19, 2009, 06:48:04 PM »

Fuck the trick, do you and make your self happy. You could also post up nudes of her ;) :evil:
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