Looking at your datalog, the first graphs, in second and third gear. Notice the boost falls off as RPMs increase above a certain point. That point appears to be roughly the same for both 2 and 3 gear.
Theory: boost leaks. Turbo is maxed out pushing all the air it can. at lower rpm the engine draws less air so even though some boost is leaking it still hits full psi and wg opens. but when engine draws more air at higher rpm, turbo cant spin faster to push more air, so boost drops off. Your exhaust backpressure would also be higher than norm, cuz the WG never opens at high rpm, thereby making car feel even slower.
could also be exhaust leak or WG problem.
My tbolt silicone couplers held for a while, then they started leaking for no reason. boost would go up to 10 at ~ 3k rpm, but drop down to 5 by 6500